Incidentally, the article was written on International Women's Day. Today I spent in Oxford. I was thinking that living with self-confidence, self-esteem and self-respect is the solution to equal rights. Equal responsibility should be taken for that. And positive incentives should be brought to everyone.
However, one of my favorite things to do after a long day at work is to drive around the Oxford University campus a few times. Oxford University makes the entire campus and its surrounding areas so charming and exudes an air of excellence that walking through this campus feels like I have actually stepped into the pages of a great historical book.
Anyway, I drove to campus like that today and stopped at a signal. The signal is green, all pedestrians stand, because now the cars will go. In this situation, two Asian students ran in violation of the traffic rules! I was surprised to notice that all the other white students were standing in compliance with the rules. Now the question is why are we Asians like this? Is it any problem past our genes? Or of behavioral traits?
Thinking about the answer to this difficult question, I felt that I have missed many things of the country in my last 19 years of foreign life, most of all I have missed my family, relatives and friends. But in the last few years, I have visited the country and I have felt that due to the terrible degradation of values at the individual and state level, the life of an honest and disciplined person in this country is now very miserable. There is such a dearth of conscience and values among people that people are gradually becoming incapable of judging good and bad. Cheating and dishonesty with others has become very normal now. The more corrupt he is, the more revered he is. Reflection of gross thinking is noticeable in every sphere of society.
I don't know why, in the frenzy of enjoying life, people are becoming incapable of distinguishing right and wrong day by day! And that is why in the country of 90% Muslims, along with prayers, fasting, Hajj, Zakat, the number of corruption, bribery, debt collectors is also increasing day by day. Due to the extreme poverty of values, people have turned religion into a tool of their own interests even from the true application of religion. A mechanical formality has been imposed instead of the excellence of the soul. Some people are shamelessly using the banner of religion and the mask of politics as a shield to cover up their evil deeds.
One of the fundamental causes of this extreme lack of values among people seems to me to be a lack of healthy thinking. A person's thinking is highly dependent on his surrounding environment and people. Each of us is a biological machine. The great creator has made us in such a way that the brain will think the way we feed our brain every day. That is, if we give more positive thoughts, the neurons of the brain will be connected in such a way that our mind will control our mentality in a positive way. And this will reflect healthy thinking in our actions.
On the other hand, if you see and think more and more negative things, the brain will gradually accept negative things as ideal and start thinking and acting in that way.
An example will make it easier to understand. Suppose, why are the people of the Western world so successful in the world? Why are they controlling the world with so much intelligence? One of the reasons for this is that their thinking is very organized and positive. They make any plans for at least the next 200 years. And they control their lives in the same way. When I sit in the office during lunch or coffee time, I am surprised to notice that the junior staff boys and girls each have a book in their hands. They read books during break time. Exchange books with each other. They discuss major world events. Plays word puzzles. They talk about traveling abroad.
And the people of our country feel much more excited to discuss in their break time which heroine got married and went viral, why some food blogger got divorced or some uneducated woman or man opens a channel to sell clothes or creams or products and talk to everyone in foul language. There is also a lot of negative news in the media. Personal grievances dominate the news, which tends to skew public opinion and public opinion.
Day by day such extremely disgusting things are being accepted as entertainment in our society and these distortions are taking up a lot of space in people's thoughts. And as a result human brain is slowly starting to accept these extremely negative things as normal and as a result our society is running towards extreme darkness day by day. People are losing their subtle and deep thinking powers and positive energies.
Due to moral decay, highly immoral and unacceptable activities in society now seem very normal to people. People are reading clothes in imitation of Hindi movies, marriage ceremonies of boys and girls are blindly imitating Hindi movies. If you want to do a job in a government office, you have to pay a bribe, this is the rule now. Even if he took a loan of thousands of crores from the bank and smuggled it abroad, that person is now respected in the society. It is only natural that gangsters will take over thousands of acres of other people's land and make a kingdom and drive Rolls Royce, and the whole country will lick their feet. If Facebook is closed for an hour, people will waste their precious time with thousands of statuses! Thousands of such differences and all the abnormalities are becoming normal!
In fact, in the society, students are going to school with a bunch of text books on their shoulders, but the meaning of that book is not entering their tender brain! As a result of this, the words 'literary knowledge and riches in hand, neither knowledge nor wealth' - are becoming true. And day by day becoming a brainless nation, the future generation is rushing towards the terrible disaster, there is an extreme crisis even for the intelligent and far-sighted thinking people. So these days it is scary to think that where this evil elemental society of values degradation will drag down!